Keys To A Good Relationship Learned At The Supermarket (Some Adult Content)

Keys To A Good Relationship Learned At The Supermarket (Some Adult Content)

by Bill Knell

Even a young boy can learn a lot about relationships from shopping. As a kid I helped my parents shop quite a bit. Overall, it was a solid learning experience because they were both good shoppers. Of course, I looked at it in a totally different way once I hit puberty (mine was early). I got to observe lots of different girls. Teens of all ages had a lot to say and, if you hung out by the makeup section, you heard most of it. That's when I began to figure things out.

When I was a kid, girls were girls and guys weren't. It was that simple. Somewhere on my road through puberty I noticed the physical and emotional differences between individual girls by observing them at the store, reading books, watching TV and movies. School provided a more limited opportunity for observation because we were mostly placed with girls our own age in a highly regulated environment. They knew as much or as little as we did.

I saw that all girls have some commonalities in terms of their needs and expectations that are easy to spot and rarely change when it comes to sex. Those needs have to be met for them to enjoy it. Ignoring these things provides a Breakup Button that they will use if frustration builds up too much.

Those looking for a fast spin in the dryer are interested in short kissing and making out sessions to avoid getting too deeply involved with a partner whom they looked at as a possible short or long term relationship candidate or fuck buddy. Deep kissing means Frenching. If you are not good at that, try dating Amish girls. If a girl isn't into French kissing, it is doubtful you will build a solid or deep relationship with them. However, some girls take a while to awaken those feelings enough to French.

Most girls have some personal preferences they would rarely talk about with their boyfriends. These were related to sex and meant a lot to them. One written in cement rule is they never like it when guys pull it out too soon. They want guys to leave it in for as long as possible even after ejaculation. Another big one is that girls really want to be serviced down there via their guy's tongue and mouth. Some want more and really prefer to sit on their face and have him go to work. For most girls giving their partner a blow job is a non-starter. They generally don't like doing it unless they can get worked up enough to enjoy it.

It’s easy to forget that girls have three holes and each one wants their guy to use those to give her pleasure. What they consider pleasure is sometimes hard to define without some questions or conversation. Innocent girls hear about these choices from older siblings or relatives, so most are willing to give it a try. That means a guy may have just one chance to get it right. My best advice is to put your all into what you do and get educated on these things. Don't hurry. Allow you and your partner time to enjoy the moments. Be aggressive, not overwhelming or unkind.

Now comes the dreaded Anal. First up is making sure she or he is clean with a soft, moist cloth. Next, lick your way up and in from her butt cheeks. Dig your tongue into her butt hole and slowly lick it. Most girls will be satisfied with that. You can also put your fingers in her vagina at the same time for more effect. Actual anal penetration requires three things: consent, communication, and lube. Forget about any stigma attached to using lube; the anus is not a self-lubricating hole (unlike the vagina), so lube is necessary for keeping things comfortable and safe during any type of anal play. Use a finger to lubricate her hole and ask before you do anything.

Explain that it will get easier as her butt gets stretched. Anal penetration is an acquired taste. For some girls it becomes a welcome part of sex, while others simply cannot deal with the initial pain and stretching of their butt. It's unfair to try and guilt your partner into it. Once they get used to it, Anal sex can become very addictive to both of you. That can be a problem down the line and it's especially true if you and/or your partner have multiple other partners.

It goes without saying that sex is fun, but can be deadly. There are lots of STDs and few outright cures. Anal sex involves stimulating the anus, offering potential pleasure and increased intimacy for some, but it carries risks like STI transmission (HIV, HPV), hemorrhoids, fissures, or fecal incontinence if done incorrectly. Safest practices include using condoms and plenty of water-based lube. However, the more you do with each other's bodies, the less chance you have of staying safe.

Google lists disease dangers with sex: “Common types include chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV, HPV, and herpes. While often asymptomatic, symptoms can include genital sores, discharge, and painful urination. Treatment involves antibiotics for bacterial infections, while viral infections are managed, not always cured. Prevention includes consistent condom use and vaccinations.”

My young neighbors were mostly girls my age or close, so the first lesson I learned was that desire was not love. That was the same between both sexes and a big problem. Once you and your partner have sex, the glow is gone. In many cases attractiveness fades and you both move on to greener pastures. It is a natural progression for many treating their relationships like a buffet table.

The biggest problem today is that people have too many sex preferences that clog up their emotional needs. Guys want partners to tute their flute or lick their butt and some do not enjoy doing that. Others want their partner to be on top and any girl who is honest will tell you there is no comfortable way for them to do that. A good alternative is doing it doggie style which generally pleases both parties. In the end it is all about working on your relationship emotionally as well as physically.

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