Compromising Positions: How To Escape Rape
Compromising Positions: How To Escape Rape
by Bill Knell
I have had the good fortune to be around girls and have close friendships with them for most of my life. Growing up, three of my closest friends were girls. In school, most girls felt comfortable around me because I was taught to always respect them. I also learned many important things from young models I worked with, including my sister who began modeling when she was twelve.
Sadly, and with few exceptions, most of the girls I knew had bad experiences where they were either forced or shamed into sex with guys. Many of these situations came about as a result of misplaced trust and strong sexual urges.
It's a biological fact that women will sometimes feel a strong compulsion to have sex due to over-compensating hormones. This can easily and dangerously place them in the hands of an unsympathetic stranger or even a current boyfriend or spouse who doesn't know how to take NO for an answer. Women often realize too late that they have acted on a hormonally encouraged attraction impulse and suddenly change their minds.
Boys sometimes find themselves in the same hormonally-compromised situation. It's hard or seemingly impossible to say NO when your body wants you to say YES. It's during times like these that good sense needs to come into play even if your body doesn't want that.
When I lived on Long Island there was a popular local pub which attracted young people with live music, generous drinks and decent prices. I don't drink alcoholic beverages, but one night I went there with two friends to hang out with them. One girl and one boy. They didn't drink much, but wanted to show me something.
Every Friday night a good looking guy named Brett showed up around nine. He was tall, handsome and didn't have to say much to get a girl interested. We watched as his first victim approached and sat down next to him. They talked for about ten minutes, then got up and headed out the door.
My friends immediately told me to get up and follow them. As we exited the club we saw Brett and the girl getting into a custom van he had in the parking lot. After that, my friends said to go back into the club. Within a half hour Brett and the girl came back inside and went their separate ways. The same thing happened with two more girls who approached Brett.
I found out later that girls who just wanted sex called Brett ‘Pool Toy’ and sought him out anytime they wanted to get laid. Sounds good, but Brett (a.k.a. Pool Toy) was used to getting his way. The fourth girl was a bit tipsy, new to the club and had no idea about his reputation. She just saw him, liked what she saw and went over to talk with Brett.
Their conversation went on for a long time. I maneuvered over towards them just in time to hear him say, “Yeah, I know a nice quiet place where we can talk and make out, if you're into doing that?” She took the bait and before long the two were exiting the club. We followed. They got into his van, but it remained in the parking lot.
After a few minutes there was some commotion in the van and loud voices. The girl then exited his van, half naked with her top and bra in her hands. Brett came out shortly afterward and had a noticeable scratch on his face. He looked around, got back into his van and drove away.
The girl was standing in a corner by the outside of the club struggling to get her bra back on. My friend Katie went over to help. She talked with the girl for a while and later told me what happened.
As soon as they got into his van, Brett cozied up to her and began trying to make out (kiss and touch) with her. He pulled her shirt off, but she resisted. He quickly grabbed her. unhooked her bra and began fondling her. She scratched his face which gave her the opportunity to exit his van.
Situations like these happen all the time. Most guys think that if a girl agrees to get into their vehicle or come to their place, it's an automatic invitation for sex. If not intercourse, something else that will get their clothes off and let the guy be satisfied.
Whether it's a stranger, boyfriend or spouse; it's up to the girl to read between the lines. If she sees they are on a collision course about sex, she needs to get outta dodge until things cool down and cooler heads prevail. If not, anything can happen and usually does. Better yet, try your best to stay out of compromising situations.
Sex drive isn't a thing to be trifled with. I give the same advice to guys that aren't ready or just don't want it at that moment. I know female models that had such strong sex drives that they pleasured themselves with anything they could find. In a few instances they made a male model do it with them by saying they would cry RAPE if he didn't. In most cases, the guys were gay (many male models are) and as deeply troubled as any girl would be when forced into sex they didn't want.
Think before you place yourself in a compromising position or situation you can’t easily escape from. Never count on the kindness or sympathy of someone you just met or don't know too well. Scratch or mark an attacker to make it clear you were not a willing sex partner. Make it clear to boyfriends and spouses that you are to be loved and cherished, not just used for your body whenever they get into the mood.
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